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Introvert

  • January 20, 2023
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Ik ga dit liever in het Engels doen, want ik uit mijzelf beter erin. Als iemand wilt reageren, mag dat Nederlands, dat is geen probleem!

 

I feel so different from other people sometimes. I’ve been trying to socialise more, but I still don't feel a connection with people. I also feel like I get genuinely really tired mentally from people, after which I have to be completely alone to be able to recover and feel better. A couple times now, I’ve been around people who I hear are introverts, but I do feel like not on the same level of introvertedness as me. I am currently in a relationship and we’ve been together for 1 month. 

Am I the only one that has a limit on cuddling and physical affection in a relationship? I can stand it for one day, after which I feel no desire to be physically touched in any way, from kissing or holding hands or anything really. I feel like people have this urge to show their love and affection to you through physical affection, even though there is plenty of other ways to show it. It bothers me, because I don't feel the need to touch or show I like someone in that way. I just feel like people don’t understand that.

I just really wanted to let this out, because it has been bothering me. 

Helaas, dit topic is gesloten. Meestal is dat omdat er langere tijd niet op gereageerd is of omdat het onderwerp afgesloten is.

2 reacties

  • January 21, 2023

I am sorry you feel this way. I recognise the feeling of getting emotionally tired from communicating. I used to have it too, until I learned my triggers and my needs. 
 

If you have other ways in which your partner should show his/her affection, you should tell that person. They can’t change it if they don’t know. Do you know in which ways you want to receive affection and love?


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  • January 21, 2023

Hoi ❤️‍🩹

Wat vervelend 😣. Heb je een idee waar dit gevoel vandaan komt? De onderliggende oorzaak bedoel ik daar mee.